Saturday, July 6, 2013

Day of Rest

Today is our first day off with nothing to do, for Jerry it will be a day of rest, for me I will be doing laundry by hand in the sink, that ought to be fun, and going to market. I'm a little sad that we were unable to go out to see some sites today, the hospital won't be available to transport us, they only have 1 van and need it to be kept at the facility in case of emergency. I have 1 other option which is a handicap taxi, Thailand only has one company that I can find, and they had no Taxi available for today. It's odd, they don't have a phone number to call, correspondence is via email, I've requested to reserve the taxi for the next 3 Sundays, I'm waiting to hear back, I hope it works out as it's the last resort. What a shame it would be to visit Thailand and the only thing we see is the hospital.

There's a building right next to the hospital that's being torn down, it's so noisy and the hours they work are insane. They begin work at 8am and work until 11pm, I thought they would at least have Sunday off, but I was mistaken, 7 days a week.....wow. All day it feels like an earthquake, this building shakes from 8am to 11pm, it's crazy. The view from the window right outside our room....


The view from our room out toward the street is much better, here are some pics at dusk...








Friday, July 5, 2013

Happy to be in Thailand

It seems as if the forces of nature are somehow trying to prevent me from completing a post, I've been trying to post an update since the day after arrival. The first obstacle to overcome was the power difference between Thailand and US. Then I spent 2 hours 2 days ago writing a post, I saved it to come back to proof read before publishing, when I came back, it was gone. I spent a lot of time yesterday trying to recover the lost data to no avail so started writing a new post. I had to take a break to take Jerry to therapy so I carefully saved it, I came back to find it was gone again, really???? What the monkey??? So here I am again, let's hope third times a charm....this time I am writing in word and will paste and publish at the same time.

The electrical differences proved to be more of a challenge than I anticipated. Thailand electric receptacles are 220 volts as opposed to the US's 110 volts, which requires a converter to avoid damaging equipment. The hospital here does not generally provide a converter however they did have one left from a previous patient they let me barrow. The converter only has one plug so Jerry and I had to keep switching back and forth to power our laptops. The converter kept overheating so I went on a mission to find another. I walked a few blocks to the mall, got lost a few times but finally managed to buy another converter and make my way back to the hospital, only to find the new converter also over heats. After much research I figured out that the laptop drew too much amperage for the small converter however the power supply for the laptop is capable of handling 110 to 240 volts. So after all that hassle  it turns out we can plug our computers directly into the wall....whew obstacle overcome. 

The journey to Thailand was quiet the adventure, we arrived at SFO 3 hours early fully expecting that it would take at least an hour to an hour and a half to get through security. Upon arrival I had assistance curbside to transport all the luggage to baggage check. I had made arrangements with the airline a week prior to departure to have an assistant at every airport to help with whatever I needed from transporting bags, to transferring Jerry onto plane, to disassembling the wheelchair and getting stowed to cargo. SFO fell short and was a bit of a disappointment in the assistance program. They will assist if you rely on them for a wheelchair, if you have your own wheelchair they will not assist you to the gate, go figure. It was a small challenge for me to drive Jerry's wheelchair and manage 3 carry-on's but I managed to still get to the gate an hour early. Getting through security went very smooth, the process was much easier than the last time we flew. Once we got to the gate I had plenty of help to load Jerry onto the plane, disassemble and bag the wheelchair parts.
Jerry was so excited with his seat, first class far surpassed my expectations. Jerry was able to stretch out completely and recline, it was almost as comfortable for him as being at home. I had plenty of space to get in the seat with Jerry periodically to stretch and manipulate his legs. Jerry was like a kid in a candy store having his own TV with hundreds of movies to choose from including new releases. He watched 4 movies and pretty much stayed awake most of the time. 

 Jerry's very own command center

The food on the plane was absolutely fabulous, there was a constant flow of food, snacks and beverages. I think we both may have gained 10 lbs on the flight, lol.....it was to good to resist, I felt as if I were about to bust at the seams at any moment pretty much the entire flight....just because you can doesn't mean you should, lol. Here's just a sampling of the delicious food served in first class....

 h'orderves...sushi
 delicious salad with fresh mozzarella and greek olives
 filet mignon, potatoes, asparagus
 gourmet cheese, grapes, wine and ice cream with caramel sauce
 cheese omelet with ham and saucage
 curried chicken and rice

The transition in Tokyo was so smooth and easy, the staff in Japan were so AMAZING! I had about 8 people helping me with bags, transferring Jerry, getting the wheelchair from cargo, I had 2 people to escort us to the VIP lounge which by the way is pretty cool, free buffet and bar, we were too full to partake, but cool none the less. Two people came to the VIP lounge to escort and help us at the gate, it was so great and stress free, SFO needs to take lessons. We touched down in Thailand about 11pm on July 1st, I felt such a sense of relief, all our efforts paid off, we were finally here. I was so grateful that everything had gone so smoothly. As we prepared to transfer Jerry off the plane the wheelchair was being retrieved from cargo. We were informed the chair was ready we could bring Jerry out, I transferred Jerry into the isle wheelchair and it took 3 of us to roll him off the plane. You have no idea the shock and disbelief I felt when I saw this...

The airline had destroyed Jerry's $35,000 wheelchair, how did this happen? ...how was this even possible? I stood there for what seemed like forever, my mouth open, my hands on my head, I couldn't speak, I just stared at it. There were about 15 cleaning crew waiting for us to get out of the way so they could board and clean the plane, there were about 6 people who brought the chair up from cargo, there were about 10 airline attendants waiting to get off the plane and a supervisor that had been sent to assist me. Everybody was silent, looking at the chair and then looking at me, so many thoughts running through my head in a split second but it felt like slow motion. The feeling of fear was overwhelming wondering how I will manage without a wheelchair. I began to shake as tears welled up and then I lost control and unleashed a fury that I'm not proud of, I'm sure to all the non English speaking staff I looked like a raving lunatic. Nobody offered an explanation, an alternative, a game plan, nothing ...everybody just sat silent and absorbed the tongue lashing. It took a minute for me to come to my senses, calm down and formulate a game plan. I requested an airport wheelchair to transfer Jerry into, I had someone go to baggage claim and get my bags, I sent someone out to look for the hospital van to explain to them what had happened. I requested maintenance to bring tools to try to fix the chair. The wheelchair that Jerry was forced to sit in was not designed for a quadriplegic, no tilt or recline, no head rest, no straps to even hold him up or prevent him from falling out of the chair, he was too tall so his legs would not stay on the foot rests, it was a mess. After 30 minutes of trying to fix Jerry's chair I realized we just need to get Jerry out of the crappy chair he was in, he cannot hold his head up so we had to hold his head for him. It was beginning to cause him a lot of pain so I knew it was time to go, forget the repairs to his chair, just get him to the hospital and worry about the chair later, I had an entourage of people assist me to the van. By the time we reached the hospital and got settled into bed it was 2 am, not sleeping much on the plane we both were exhausted and ready to sleep. We got about 5 hours sleep then it was time to start the day, breakfast then blood work and an assessment by the doctor. Next was an assessment for occupational therapy then lunch, after lunch was a physical therapy assessment. By 3 pm we were done for the day. The hospital maintenance man brought tools and supplies to our room and helped to get Jerry's wheelchair fixed, praise God his wheelchair is now back in operation. 

I needed to go to the mall to get some food supplies for our room so I arranged for the hospital van to take us. The mall is walking distance however the walk is not wheelchair accessible the sidewalks are very bad if any at all  so unfortunately we will not be able to walk the neighborhood to explore. We were given 2 hours to get our shopping done before the van returned to pick us up. We unloaded went through several obstacles just to get into the mall, it sure makes you appreciate the ADA compliancy of the US. Once in the mall Jerry's chair malfunctioned resulting in the joy stick operations program being completely erased, I don't know if this was a result of the trauma the chair experienced at the airport or what, I just knew that now the chair was non-operational and yet again I was faced with a situation. Thank God I thought to bring the programmer to Thailand however it was not going to do me any good at the moment it was back at the hospital. I'm thankful to be blessed with the gift of problem solving, it comes in handy, lol. The only alternative was to push the chair manually which is doable but with Jerry in it, it does weigh almost 550 lbs. I managed but boy was I tired after pushing that chair around for 2 hours. Jerry was not happy with all the obstacles we faced and vowed he will not leave the hospital again, we need to work on his patience and tolerance. The hope that we will be able to do some site-seeing on Sundays is slowly diminishing. The hospital customer coordinator said the train is not accessible in this area because you have to climb several flights of stairs to get to it and there are no elevators. There are no taxi or handicap accessible vehicles to transport Jerry, only the hospital van which is likely not an option, I put in a request we will see what happens. I'm a little sad to think our first time overseas and  we are confined to the hospital. :(

I forgot to mention our room is awesome... big bedroom with two queen beds, nice bathroom with roll-in shower, a living room/ kitchenette. 


Wednesday was Jerry's first day with a full schedule starting with breakfast at 8am. The therapies all last an hour each with the first therapy OT starting at 9, then acupuncture at 10, break for lunch and hyperbaric chamber at 1 ending with PT (physical therapy) at 2:30. The hyperbaric chamber is a new therapy that was just added to the hospital. Jerry was the first patient to use it, so it was a very big deal for everyone here, it was so cute, all the staff were taking pictures and so happy, everybody was getting in the pictures and there was at least 10 camera's, every picture had to be snapped with every camera, lol. I need to do a little research and learn a little more about the benefits of the hyperbaric chamber, I'll let you know when I've learned a little more about it. 


Jerry received his first injection of stem cells at 7 pm Wednesday evening, which were administered by IV. The most common adverse reactions are head ache and fever and luckily Jerry didn't experience either. We waited so long and worked so hard for this moment, I hope and pray it will improve the quality of Jerry's life.

Friday Jerry had aquatic therapy at 9 am, it was nice for him to get in the pool. I need to find out a little more about the pool I think the water is specially treated with minerals or something, the nurse was trying to explain but it was very difficult to understand. Jerry had hyperbaric treatment at 1, PT at 2:00 and acupuncture at 3. Jerry is done for the day and resting in bed, he's pretty exhausted. So far Jerry is very excited about all the treatment he's getting and his hopes and spirits are high. 

All for now

Katie

Thursday, June 27, 2013

Jerry Turns 24

It's so hard to believe that Jerry was 19 when he broke his neck and he just turned 24 yesterday. In some respects it seems like so long ago, so much has changed since then and in some respect it seems like it was just yesterday. We celebrated Jerry's birthday with a small impromptu party at my house with friends and family. Thanks Donna, Kelsey, Cheryl, Jessica, Jacob, Ian, Janea and Pepe for helping us celebrate Jerry's birthday.  Also thank you to Brittany and Lauren for calling Jerry on his birthday, I know it may seem hard to tell but it really meant a lot to him to hear live voices from friends.

It's equally hard to believe that in less than 65 hours we will be on a plane headed for Thailand for Jerry to finally receive the stem cell treatment we've worked so hard to attain. Even though Jerry is not very expressive at this point, I know he is excited and hopeful that the treatment will improve his condition. I am excited and so hopeful but at the same time a little nervous about traveling alone with Jerry.

It looks like we will be able to see a few sites while we are in Thailand, Jerry will be in therapy 6 days a week but will have Sundays off, we will have 5 Sundays to go touristing. It turns out the subway is walking distance from the hospital so we can take the subway to go site-seeing. So far we will spend one Sunday going to the Grand Palace and one day going to the Zoo. I'd love to hear from you if you know of any MUST SEE's in Thailand. I will be sure to post lots of pictures and update often.

Katie

Friday, June 14, 2013

Thank You!

The spaghetti feed was a great success, it far exceeded my highest expectation. I really didn't know what to expect, as of 5 days prior to the feed I had only received 4 RSVP's. We decided to be on the safe side and plan to feed 300, however I was worried if we would even get 50 ...enough to pay for food. By the weeks end we had gotten about 40 RSVP's, I was able to have peace of mind we would at least make our money back. It's funny how things work out, it's almost as if God planted a seed in my head ...plan for 300, even though I truly didn't expect more than 80 to 100, I still planned on having 300. I'm happy to say that over the course of the 4 hours we had at least 300 and maybe a little over. The day went so smooth, the food was spectacular thanks to Steve Carlson, trust me if I had cooked it some of you may have requested a refund, lol. The music was fabulous, thanks to the band the LEFTOVERS and Kelsy Brose, you guys were amazing!!! Thank you to everyone who helped with set up, clean up, serving, cooking, guardians of the door and a huge THANK YOU to all who came to support us. We raised just over $10,000, which brings me to my next question...Why is it when your shocked your mouth drops open? After getting the final tally, I don't think I could close my mouth for at least 30 seconds, lol. This community is so caring, supportive and generous, I am truly blessed to call this place home.

 Below is a thank you that I posted to facebook, I thought I would post it here as well for those that helped but don't have facebook.....

I want to thank each and every one of you that have contributed to making our fundraising efforts successful.We have promoted the gofundme donation page, the spaghetti feed, sponsorship letters and the blog. To those that supported us in helping circulate through facebook by liking and sharing once or till you were blue in the face I THANK YOU! To those that donated money be it friend, family, acquaintance or complete stranger, I THANK YOU! To all those that came to the spaghetti feed to donate and show support, I THANK YOU! To all those that volunteered their time to help make the spaghetti feed a success, I THANK YOU! To Sharon and Donna, for lighting the fire under my butt, keeping me motivated, and the countless hours you put in to all of this, I THANK YOU!

Four years ago when Jerry broke his neck we set out to take him overseas for stem cell therapy, a goal was set to raise $40,000 to get Jerry treatment. The fundraising efforts of 2009 raised enough money to cover some of Jerry's equipment needs, his functional electrical stem bike, aggressive physical therapy, modifications to the home and a handicap van. I was able to save $10,000 of that money for stem cell treatment. We set out a few months ago determined to raise the remaining $30,000 needed for Jerry to receive treatment. I am happy to report that to date we have raised $20,000. So to ALL of you that have helped in anyway I am grateful and I THANK YOU!!!!

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

Leap of Faith

I've taken a few leaps of faith in this journey to get stem cell treatment for Jerry and every step of the way God has confirmed he's got my back, once again I have been blessed with an incredible gift. One of my biggest concerns can now be put to rest, Jerry will now be able to travel safely and comfortably to Thailand in FIRST CLASS. I was so worried that Jerry would not be able to sustain a 20 hour flight in the upright position, and even more scary was the threat of Pulmonary Embolism from the lack of space to move Jerry's legs. I am so thankful to put those fears to rest as the seats in first class will recline and even lay down into a bed, I will have all the space I need to manipulate Jerry's legs and lay him down to keep him comfortable. I owe an enormous debt of gratitude to an organization called Airline Ambassadors International ...AAI donated the flyer miles needed to get Jerry in first class. The AAI team worked diligently to make this happen for us and words cannot express the immense gratitude I feel for all they have done. I would like to give a special thank you to Sandy who was in constant contact with me during the process of making this work, she and I had correspondence till late in the night and throughout the weekend, Sandy went above and beyond...God bless her! The unfortunate down side to AAI helping me is that it depleted their flyer miles bank, so I ask you followers of Jerry to consider donating flyer miles to AAI to help replenish their bank. If you have some extra miles and would like to help replenish their bank you click here and look for Airline Ambassadors on this page to donate flyer miles.

The local papers have written articles about Jerry, if you would like to read the articles you can find the  Santa Cruz Sentinel article here, unfortunately the Press/ Banner article was not online you would of had to live locally to see it in the paper. Thank you to both papers for helping us get the word out about the spaghetti feed and fundraising efforts.

Hope to see you all at the spaghetti feed...




Thursday, May 30, 2013

Flights Are Booked

I've finally booked our flights to Thailand, I really struggled with committing to an airline. I've spent a lot of time researching airlines trying to find an airline willing to donate an upgrade from coach, unfortunately I didn't have any success.  I'm so worried about Jerry flying coach for 20 hours. Jerry has only been on a plane once since he broke his neck, it was a 6 hour flight to Georgia that resulted with Jerry in intensive care with a pulmonary embolism. Jerry is 6'3" tall, his head sat above the head rest his knees hit the seat in front of him, there was no way for me to move or massage his legs to help his circulation, there was no room for it, as a result he got a PE. I feel the safest place for Jerry would be first class, where he could put his legs up and recline and I would have plenty of space to massage his legs to help with circulation. Here in lies the problem the difference in cost between coach and first class for two people is $21,954, not affordable. I decided I can no longer wait, as prices for coach fares are going up everyday. I had to book the coach seats now and work on finding a way to upgrade later. With our seats costing almost $5,000 I certainly hope they have a decent meal for a 20 hour flight, lol.

After spending much time on the phone with the airline I learned of a few organizations that work with the airline where people have donated their flier miles to these charities. If I could get one of these charities to donate 120,000 flier miles that would be enough to upgrade both of us to first class round trip. The other thought was to do a miles drive to see if we could get miles donated, from friends, family and the community. If any of you have an extra 120,000 flier miles laying around feel free to drop me a line. :)

Katie                  

Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Getting The Word Out

The Spaghetti feed is fast approaching, I gotta say I'm excited and nervous at the same time. Excited to have a community gathering and see my valley peeps I haven't seen for so long, nervous my valley peeps won't show up...lol. That being said the details are all falling into place, it ought to be a wonderful night of food, music and fellowship, I hope to see you all there. I gotta give a huge shout out to Donna, Sharon and Debbie, for all their help promoting the Spaghetti Feed. Donna had a booth set up at the Felton Remembers memorial celebration in the park, with the help of her daughter Kelsey, they spent all day Saturday promoting the spaghetti feed and sharing Jerry's story. Debbie passed out flyers at the Felton Remembers Parade, and Sunday Sharon and her husband set up a beautiful booth at the the Boulder Creek Art festival at Junction Park ...spreading the word. I just want to acknowledge how appreciative I am to all of them for the work and effort they put into helping to share Jerry's story and spread the word of the upcoming spaghetti feed. Thanks!!!